All Men Are The Same🤔

No, not all men are the same, some of us are worst…

Today I was in a McDonald’s, and on the table next to me were a group of women. They were talking about their heartbreaks from the past. I wish I couldn’t have been able to hear what they were saying but they were too loud, and were even singing songs about them. In addition to all of these, they were doing it in Spanish, my first language (qué privilegio el mío, nope).

Among the many things (a lot of cursing) they were saying about their counterparts, men, there was this particular phrase that was very repetitive: “All men are the same”.

I was so close to politely join their conversation and have some debate about that polemic fact, but I didn’t feel like killing their ego… at least not this time😎

So, I finished my burrito, and left the place with that desire, but with an interesting topic to write about…thanks ladies 🙏🏽

I guess when women say that we, men, are all the same, they mostly talk about men always wanting something sexual and then leaving them, or not wanting something serious but rather something just passional. This might be true, specially when it seems that the majority of men follow that pattern.

But let me say something about that famous phrase: NO, NOT ALL OF US JUST WANT TO HAVE SEX AND THEN LEAVE. Actually, some of us want to first STAY and then, in the marriage setting enjoy sex. That’s how is supposed to be, but this relativistic culture has messed it up so bad.

Today, sex is no longer reserved for someone special (unless everyone is special 🤔🤪uhmm). Sex is so cheap and easy to access. After all, why make love if just having sex is easier, at least emotionally talking? No commitments at all, everyone happy, well…at least superficially. But, at what cost? … another guess: emptiness when the passion is gone and when you’re alone, alone with no one but you and yourself, alone when you can finally think about your life, if you ever do it…

Well, some of us do think on the costs and consequences of the “easy sex” culture, and have decided to do the things in the right way. But, in this culture of everyone having their own truth (relativism), what is the right way anyways?! If it makes you happy, why in the world not do it, right? As long as you don’t hurt someone, why even bother thinking on the consequences? Right?…

Well, the truth is that you’re hurting yourself and you don’t even realize it. But, I can’t tell you how because if you bought that lie that Hollywood has sold you about free sex without consequences; nothing that I can write or say will change your mind, and I will be just wasting my keyboard…

Nevertheless, what I can say is that for my luck, I have found the Truth and the Way that has set me free from that wrong thinking. And I believe that many other men have found their Way as well, and have decided to BE DIFFERENT. For this reason, some of us don’t want half, but everything from the other person; and that’s what makes us worst than the usual ones that would mediocrely accept just a night of “love”. Because if we don’t want half, for sure we prefer nothing.

So, NO…NOT ALL MEN ARE THE SAME, some of us are worst, for some of you. Because we want all of you, and for something real and lasting rather than for something fake and lusting…which let me guess, for one last time, IT SCARES YOU (if you’re some of those women). Women that I believe will always generalize about men because unfortunately, they are always falling for the same type: the ones that sadly are always the same.

 

Gianco